Recently,  I had a tooth removed and developed problems, which meant I had to go to the dentist everyday for fresh a dressing.

As the days wore on my bravery slowly faded until I found myself submitting to the treatment.

I use the word 'submitting' because instead of 'allowing' the dentist to treat me for a condition which obviously needed treatment, I was feeling like a victim to the dentist.

The dentist was absolutely lovely to me, she realised something unusual was happening and guessed that I'm a survivor.

Despite her understanding and compassion i was still triggered. Old stuff, new stuff, it poured into my head and my very being.

It came as quite a shock because i haven't been triggered for such a long time, years in fact.  

I have been able to deal with the flashbacks and unwanted thoughts and feelings in a much more balanced way than i've ever been able to before but i got to thinking about other folk who may be in similar situations with dentists and unable to deal with the feelings, thoughts etc. I would say to you- accept kindness, if it's offered, and acknowledge the fear.. it's normal for people with our backgrounds to feel like this when visiting the dentist.

sue

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